First of all, I am completely thrilled to be featured on NAMMAS! Quite an honor - Lori is putting a lot of work into this and I am glad I am a part of it.
In regards to the headline...I asked my 15 year old son to comment on the statement “You know you are a military family when” – but he wanted to use the expression “military brat”.”Go for it,” I said “It’s your post!” . I find the expression “military brat” a little dated and the expression carries a negative ring for me, though some might consider it a term of endearment. One thing is for sure, the challenges that military families are dealing with are different than the ones from civilian families. Some are positive and some are negative. Either way, military culture creates a special environment to grow up in, which is usually unmatched by any non-military family experience.
Here it comes, uncensored:
You know your a military brat when….
- …among your friends you are the only one who actually knows the pledge of allegiance.
- …you consider yourself lucky that you haven’t moved in the past four years.
- …your dad takes your family including your baby sister six o’clock on a Saturday morning to run the special-ops obstacle course….. twice…
- … and it takes you only twenty minutes.
- …your dad finally comes home after a year in Iraq and whenever you want to ask your dad you involuntarily pick up the phone.
- …your morning routine includes checking Skype or email to see if your parent in Iraq is online.
- …you are the only person in the entire school with a buzz-cut.
- …you know home is not only where the heart is, but also wherever the rest of the family hangs their hat.
- …the military has become your most reliable source of entertainment.
- …half of your wardrobe has military-related insignias printed on it.
There will be a few more blog entries by my son Tyler, as we are scheduled to move again this summer. There are not many military teen bloggers out there (at least that I am aware of) so this is going to be a great point of view.
For resources about military kids go to: Military Youth On The Move andOur Military Kids
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